As a follow up to yesterday's post, I have made a decision; I am going to try to stop planning. I have this irresistible compulsion to make all of these plans for my life, and none of them ever work out the way I want them to. That seems to be where nearly all of my aggravation comes from. This is especially stupid since, for the most part, none of my plans are actually even for things that I really want; they're just things that I think will be better than the way things are now. So I am going to make a serious effort to just do what I want, or what I like, or what I feel I should, and stop trying to figure out where it all might go.